Today after my training I was on my way home when I saw two hwa chong junior college students on the bus. They were sitting at the back and behaving very intimately, and I shall respect them by not telling you what they did, no matter how much they did not deserve it as firstly, they were destroying the school’s reputation, not to mention that is was hwa chong, the biggest secondary school in southeast asia. Wonder what will people react, especially the parents and they will not send their children to hwa chong. They will think that hwa chong produced this kind of students instead of nurturing them into the future leader of our country. Secondly, they are neglecting their studies if they have a relationship will each other. They are in junior college and if they don’t do well, they will not be able to go to a good university, particularly when competition is very fierce among every people in the society. If they don’t get a good certificate, their future will be ruined. Thirdly relationship will cause deviation from family. If you go out with your girlfriend all day and you go home very late your parents will be worried for you and what will they do if they are worried about you? They will express it by nagging at you. If your parents nag at you, what will you do? You will talk back and then what happens? A quarrel will break up between you and your parents. Your parents care about you, and you “repay” them by scolding them. This shows that you do not understand your parents at all. Who are the ones who brought you into this world? Your parents. Who are the ones who brought you up? Your parents. Who are the ones who stood up for you when you are bullied and scolded the bully? Your parents. All these are about your parents. But at the end of the day, what do they get? Your scolding them for being a busybody. You do not appreciate what your parents have done for you. When you have troubles, your girlfriend will at most just comfort you, but they do not do anything to help you. Your parents are the ones who helped you and comfort you to get up and carry on with life.
Thus, I would like to conclude that having relationships is detrimental for us, students, no matter in terms of your personal well being and the affection of the people around you. Thank you.