Do you feel hatred when someone scolds you? Do you think that the person may be picking on you? Do you want to "return the favour" by scolding him back? This will be my topic for the day: if someone scolds you, do they mean well?
When your parents nag at you, do you think that they are naggy and they are very troublesome. Well, I do sometimes. I think that they are quite irritating because all the time the things that they say is the same. When they see you playing the computer, they will start their blaberring about getting poor grades if we did not study. They will even ban you from playing the computer. Sometimes if you want to do projects on the internet, and they saw you, they will also scold you. I think that they do not understand us. We are trying to do our work, but our parents malign us by thinking that we are playing the computer, and we got the scolding for nothing. When you flare up at them, they will think that you are being rebellious. I think that they do not understand our predicament. After a long day in school, when you come back and turn on the computer, and they saw it, they will start all their talks about getting bad grades again. We have done our parts as students and after concentrating for half of the day, we still need to study. Are grades the priority? Why do we have to study? What do we yield from studying? I don't know whether how all of you feel, but i feel frustrated if i had to do my work when i have already done it. However, do you think that your parents want it? Do you think that they want you to study for no reasons. It all comes down to one basic reason: they just want to lay the foundations for you, so that when you grow up you can get a good job, buy a big car, earn lots of money. All these may not appeal to you, when I say it now, but when you grow up, these are the most important things, not computer games. Hence, as much as I know how you all feel when your parents scold you, try to bear with it, because when you grow up and become a parent, these will be the things that you require of your daughter or son.
Everybody in school gets scolding by their teachers, and so do I. How does it feel to be scolded by someone who is not even related to you? This will cause you to be even more ashamed and more angry if your teachers scolded you, and not to mention in front of your friends. When I get scolded by my teachers, if it is the last period of the day, so be it. However, if it is the first period of the day, I would not be able to concentrate on what the rest of my teachers said, and yes, you can call that "emo". Do you think that your teachers want to scold you? All they want is for you to do your best and everybody gains from it. Then everytime when you walk past your teachers who have taught you in the past, you can hang up your heads high, because you know that there is nothing for you to be ashamed of, because you have done well. However, if you did badly in your grades that year, when you walk past that particular teacher, you will feel a sense of guilt and you will scold yourself for not doing well. Such things, I doubt you want it to happen to you right? Hence, when a teacher scolds you, do not think that they are picking on you. Rather, think that they want the best out of you, and it will spur yourself to do better the next time in order to avoid another scolding.
I have come to the end of my post today. I think that when someone scolds you, there is a hidden meaning in it, no matter good or bad, and you must reflect on it, so that you can do better the next time.